During
the first 15 minute segment, communication was extremely difficult. I also
found myself using what I felt was a physical way to say something and very
rarely did someone realize what I was trying to imitate or say to them. I found
that one of the best ways to communicate was by having yes or no questions
asked when the silent person simply nods his head. This was by far the most
productive way to communicate. My brother actually slowed his voice down to try
to help communicate which made me laugh quite a bit.
In the case of multiple cultures
meeting for the first time, I think that the language that is the simplest as a
base has the advantage of communicating complex ideas. For instance,
conjugation is an extremely difficult thing to learn when learning a new
language. Mandarin might have an advantage to English for first time learners
simply because Mandarin really does not have conjugation difficulties in the
same sense. This makes mandarin simpler to adjust to. The speaking culture
might find an easier and faster way communicating thoughts through speech as opposed
to non symbolic language simply because speech helps to avoid confusion. The
hard of hearing pose an issue to the verbal language simply because they cannot
hear what someone is saying. The use of sign language is a wonderful change to
interact with those people, but sign language is another language to learn and
is quite difficult.
The latter 15 minutes reminds me of the
Microsoft Sam monotone voice. I found it extremely hard to not change my tone of voice or gesture
with my hands at all. Also, I found out that sarcasm does not work at all
without an implied tone or quirky look. My brother also told me to try and tell
a joke without being able to change my voice or gesture. That did not work very
well at all. This experiment shows an amazing amount about the tone and
physical gesturing that we use to try and tell but also show someone what we
are saying. The non-speech factors of language are an important part especially
in the department of humor.
There certainly are people that
cannot read body language. Anyone that has trouble seeing or even on the phone
will not be able to read body language. The only benefit that I can see with
not noting body language is that one might actually hear every part of what
someone says and not see what they are trying to state. Listening without
seeing drops a lot of the assumptions that are made by someone's physical
appearance. The only situation that I can think of where not reading body
language is a good thing is if the body language can be misinterpreted. When people misinterpret things, fights and
arguments happen. In that case, body language was an inadequate tool utilized
that posed no benefit.
"I found that one of the best ways to communicate was by having yes or no questions asked when the silent person simply nods his head."
ReplyDeleteThat's exactly right. It turns into a game of 20 questions. Good observation on how your brother changed his way of communicating with you. Why would he do that if you weren't having trouble understanding him?
While I appreciate what you are saying about differences in language, the issue here is just spoken language versus a culture with no spoken language. You do address this later in the section.
Yes, jokes and sarcasm don't work at all without non-verbal language! Imagine being a comedian without body language? It would never work.
Good call on the phone conversation issue. True, you can hear intonation, but body language is gone. Same problem with texting and emailing. Excellent job recognizing that body language might just lie to you! Yes, if you are traveling to a culture that uses different body language, misreading the non-spoken signals can often get you into trouble.
Good job.